Face off : Love

This is about the most coveted form of relationship in the age group of 16-25 . This is about finding a soulmate , finding your better half ....about finding ur love . At the same time this is about the fallacy of love , about the myth called "I love her" ,about the lust called love and most importantly about the fashion trend of life "LOVE BUG".

There is a lot of hue and cry raised for love ....... hardly you can find people single by choice or with the reason " i dint get any of my kind" ....Seriously , how many will say "i never fell in love " ....... very few .... infact none if they speak truthfully ....

but do you think they all did fall in love at any point of time . if yes , then either love has been surplus or cupid has been working late in 21st century and if cupid wasn't working these days very religiously, how come these people lie , not to the rest of the world but even to themselves.....they don't lie to us , they have been lying all these days to themselves...... an auora of a word "LOVE" that they have created around themselves has engulfed them all,making them believe that they indeed are in love ...

Then the Q is what real love is ? i would like to quote a person who has not only seen many facets of life but also reproduced them to us ...Dickens says " what real love is ? it is blind devotion , unquestioning self humiliation, truth and belief against yourself and against the whole world. this in my opinion , the closest definition of love that i have ever come across.Every word of it echo love ........did u see sthg .....it is love and rebellion at the same time , love is rebellion......
and that requires the courage to falsify every thing on this earth....love is eternal, beyond thoughts , beyond words , beyond reason and beyond time and beyond life.

What is that we see today .... lots of relationships .... calling themselves eternal ...claiming themselves as love ..... but are they ? are they perfect when said "i had a breakoff with my previous boyfren ...this time i have found my love " ....is it love ...No it is not because the verification of the relationship is dependent on time..... Love , remember, is beyond time. Do you love me ? "Yes, I Love you " ..... these 3 words of reassurance ...is this love ...no it is not because love doesnot need any assurance ....any question or ne answers....it is beyond words.

You say ,"I can die for you ?" ........believe me ... It is tougher to live for some one than to die for him/her. The smallest concerns ,right from making the person smile to giving the next one evethg that she/he wishes , making all sacrifices so that her eyepetals are bereft of dew drops forever...dying every moment so that she can live .... living every moment so that she can live ......burning your desires in the flame of her wishes ...moulding your soul in her body ...... that is what love is .....

have you ever felt the same for anyone ? have u ever lived ur life in the wake of such an angel..........if yes ...u are in love .....

I NEVER WAS ...... neither are you .....

We condemn arrange marriages .... reason being ,it is a compromise. I say , the love, we see today , is more of a compromise ... a compromise without any dedication and sometimes without any committment. They say we are in love , physical expressions of it and public display of affection fascinate them. Many blend into the love -smuv just for the sake of it. others for emotional satisfaction and some merely as a status symbol. Universal culture adatation has brought about , if not anything else , the word "boyfren" and "girlfren", a cool and casual way to show off your worldly assets.It is this philosophy that drives the teens today ...... throwing away their precious energies in the mask of love ...............pulling themeselves apart in the name of Love .....and only for the name of it ..........coz ... that is wht is remaining of love in this world .......only ITS NAME ......


to be continued .........depends on time and mood ...its not my love :)