Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Last Blog as a Bachelor!!

This has to be something different, much different than what i have written till date.Why ? coz this holiday was drastically different than all others. This was perhabs my last holiday at home with marital status single. How is life going to change in the next 50 days. I won’t be single any more. I will married by the end of the 50th day from now on. God! I am ecstatic as well as terrified. I know that I want to get married and that too with the girl I am marrying but don’t know if this is the right time and state to get married . But how does that matter. The most important thing is the willingness and the desire to get married. Rest all follows. Life will certainly change in the next half century days and I have to prepare myself for the change. I am going to lead a family and I have to adapt myself to this responsibility. Some one has said “its all in the mind” . I believe in the same philosophy. I can well be the CEO of any fortune 100 company and can equally manage my family , relations and my new designation as a husband. I sure can , the only thing what needs to be changed in the discipline factor. I need to become much more disciplined in my life and rest again will follow.
Well, this relationship has made me learn some facts of life; my past relationships were all fake , almost all of them. I dont feel  anything for any girl who had been in and out of my life. I don’t know why but i got a great lesson that i really wasted my time with all of them and cupid was far away resting in peace.Love means a lot more than the three golden words.
The career has yes, taken a back seat in my life at present but I have not at all neglected my goals, professional or personal. Thanks to the family and the new addition to it, I keep remembering my words on and off. I also truly believe that marriage should  boost  my career rather than jeopardize it as it mostly depends on the relationship you share with the girl and the maturity of the counterpart and i am confident of both of the factors. The girl is mature in terms of studies and goals and yes she supports me more than  myself. I like her for being what she is..... Godspeed ..amrit

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